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A Show that is best for Your Family Bonding

Still thinking for a family bonding activity? Purchase Wicked tickets now. Treat your whole family to a night of entertainment. Take them to a musical performance that they could enjoy watching. Wicked musical has intention of satisfying both children and adults. Let them laugh out loud with the throwaway lines from different characters of Wicked.

If you are familiar with “The Wizard of Oz”, the setting of Wicked happened before Dorothy arrived in Oz. The story focuses on the little pea-green skinned girl, Elphaba, who become the infamous Wicked Witch of the West. Wicked musical scenes and costumes are so colorful that could make your little children enjoy the show while big kids and parents would enjoy the dialogue and lyrics.

Wicked gathered positive criticisms and got a Tony Award, definitely your family will love it too.

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How Important Is Social Support in an Uncomfortable Situation

As for me, chatting with friends is not a waste of time, but a great experience to bond with them and learn from them most especially if that friend needs someone to talk to. My friend is currently wearing a posture support because he has herniated disc due to an accident. Don’t let the person feel that you pity of him if you meet someone who is on such state, lift the spirit of the person instead.

Our topic started from back pain treatment, to whooping cough epidemic, to eclipse premiere, to Martell Webster, Devin Ebanks, up to when did Michael Jackson die, to having John Wall shoes, and even to a ridiculous rumor that Justin Bieber is hermaphrodite.

I know that it is not easy for him to just stay at home for awhile and wearing a posture support because I myself experienced to wear a neck support when my C4 has been pushed to C5 way back 2006. It is a ‘no joke’ experience… So, I really could relate how he feels nowadays. Good for him that the said support he is wearing now is one of Aspen Medical Products which is so innovative.

I can still remember the traction sessions I went through and I need to wear a cervical collar all the time until the defect has been corrected. I even kept the cervical collar as my remembrance. No, I don’t want to wear it again; it is just for remembrance sake. I haven’t shared to him about my experience since it will not do well to him. We talked about various real world topics instead.

Yes, he needs to accept his real situation but he need not to thrive on it, it will just cause depression. I told my friend that he should not think a lot about his current situation since he will not be on that state for lifetime. It may not be that comfortable wearing a support compared to if he is free but the said support will help him to be well again.

Positive thoughts can do a lot to ease the pain and helps the body be back to its normal state again. Social support is a big factor too for the patient to feel fine despite of the discomfort and pain.

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Be Aware And Do Something

Be aware and do something! If you are a parent and, or a concerned citizen, you need to read this post. Have you heard about Salvia divinorum? Media raised an alarm about this plant because of its psychoactive property.

In 1982, Alfredo Ortega of Mexico isolated the Salvinorin A molecule from Salvia divinorum. Salvinorin A is the molecule responsible of hallucinative and dissociative effects of S. divinorum in humans.

Ataxia (lack of coordination), cognitive (mental or thinking and reasoning) and memory impairment, and amnesia (loss of memory) are just some of the possible things might happened to your child that will try the trance-effect of S. divinorum out of curiosity or peer pressure. There was even a case of death due to S. divinorum usage.

Salvia divinorum psychoactive property could cause dissociative effects like hallucinations, and trance or intense dream-like effect as if it is realistic. No wonder why Mazatec shamans use it on their traditional spiritual healing sessions to aid to their visionary states of consciousness. S. divinorum’s native habitation is in Sierra Mazateca of Oaca, Mexico making them possible

Parents, especially if your children are on their teenage years, you need to be aware of it! S. divinorum is still legal on many countries nowadays. Peer pressure, having problems in relationship within family, and lack of parental guidance are the main reasons why teenagers and adults resort to engaging in activities that could let them forget the reality of life they are into.

I am encouraging all parents to devote quality time with their kids and have a good communication with them. Effective parenting is the best way that your child could stand and face all the odds in life, and for them not to use any substance for them to retreat to a dream world.

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The Importance of Relationships To Our Lives

The common saying “No man is an island” points us to the importance of relationships to our lives. As we will notice, close relationships molds us to become a better individuals regardless of our age.

Close relationships give us learning opportunities. Having time to interact with other people is opening ourselves to learning that sometimes we do not even noticed that we learned something from someone until we have done until circumstances pushed us to do what we have learned. Through face-to-face dealings with parents, infants learn. Kids learn from their fellow kids the more acceptable way to make friends. Teenagers and adults learn from other people how to act and do the right thing as a parent, lover, or as leader.

Aside from learning experiences we can get out of close relationships, we could also get social support out of it. Our need of support could be practical help or emotional. Stress as we all know is everywhere, with social support it is lessened. Depression is one of the psychological effects of lack of interpersonal relationships. If you do not want to suffer depression, have time to mingle with your family and friends. They need you as you need them.

Do not hesitate to post on comment section about things you can share about this topic.

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Jump Rope to Wellness

During my childhood days, we used to jump rope as a form of childhood play. We maximize the rope using different styles of jumping activities. It’s fun to do it whether in group or individually. Kids appreciate rope jumping at home even if they have no playmate at all.

Aside from fun reap out of jumping rope games, jumping rope is known in improving strength and endurance as well as coordination and agility. Jumping rope is a great cardiovascular work out and could strengthen the bones too. No wonder, my parents teach me about rope jumping and encourage me and my friends to play rope jumping games.

Rope jump is not just good for kids but for all of us. Aside from the list of  benefits jumping rope could offer that I have mentioned above, it is a good form of work out for adults too. It may not burn fat directly (if that is your target), but  it is a high calorie burner form of exercise. One minute of jumping the rope could burn 10-15 calories, depending on your jumping rate.

Jumping rope exercise is fun and healthy to do but you need to take precautionary measures before doing the said activity. it is not a good form of exercise for people who are suffering from hypertension or high blood pressure since jumping rope could further increase your blood pressure level as you are doing the activity.

Since all family members could benefit from rope jumping, why  don’t you include it in your family bonding activities’ list? Just take note that you have to warm out first before you start your jumping rope activity. 5-10 minutes walking or jogging or rope jumping in a slow tempo or jumping jacks are good warm-up exercises.

Jumping rope for 3 minutes or less then have a 1 minute rest in between 3 minutes jump is the advisable as rope jumping workout (you just need to adjust the speed according to your body capacity).

If you are with your kids, and make jumping rope your fun family activity it is good to do it by pairs. Two members will hold and move the rope in circular motion while the other pair will skip the rope. We interchangeably call jumping rope  as skipping rope.

Stretching your body to cool down after jumping  rope activity could help to slow down your heart rate to its normal state and relax your muscles at the same time. Stretching is  important as warm up activity.

You want an enjoyable way to be healthy? Go, rope jump to wellness!

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How to Help Your Kids Learn The Importance of Family Bonding And Exercise

You want some tips how to help your kids learn the importance of family bonding and exercise? If you are one of those parent who want your kids to appreciate the importance of exercise, family exercise is a great bonding moment to promote it. Kids, as young as months old are capable of  learning  through what they see and hear and could appreciate happenings and beauty of their surroundings.

Putting the baby on a stroller while the whole family is taking a walk in the park every morning or afternoon as form of family bonding and exercise is a good start for the baby to learn and enjoy walking with the family on the park. So, never set aside the baby and his nanny while the rest of the family is walking for wellness sake. By the time the baby could walk, encourage him to take few steps every now and then during your family walk to wellness activity.

Dancing, jogging and jumping rope are some of the fun physical activities to do if little kids are already capable to do such activities. Seeing all members participate in your family activities religiously with fun and excitement is a great learning experience for little kids  about the importance of family bonding and exercise.

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Importance of Learning Toys to Cognitive Development of Your Child

How important is the choice of toys you provide to your child? Almost all parents will definitely agree that not all toys are Award Winning Toys. There are toys that could cause aggression while some could cause ailments due to materials the toy was made of (lead poisoning), but, there are toys that could help child learn to understand things and be ready for the realities in life, especially in preparation for lessons at school.

Learning Toys help a lot in cognitive development of a child. With toys that could sharpen the child’s mind and those they could use for pretend play, definitely, child’s cognitive development will be more sharpened making them ready to be involve in the society.

Many studies showed that though children who are 0-6 months old could not interact well compared to their older counterparts, their brains are like sponge that you can teach them already, that they are capable of learning simple things through seeing, hearing and touching. With Baby Toys, babies of about 12 months old enjoys sensorimotor play by shaking their toys, putting things on his mouth and moving the toys on the floor.

Playtime is best if parents are there to assist there kids. It is a great parent-child bonding session. With playtime with your kids, you will understand more about their personalities and emotions through their drawings, paintings and pretend plays.

What is the best spice for playtime bonding with your kids? It is just a three letter word–FUN.  Setting aside all the stresses you met while taking time to have some fun with your kids is advantageous not just to your child’s cognitive development in your playtime but for your health as well.

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Having Fun Under The Sun

We received an invitation from my Aunt the other week. Her son graduated with honor last week. Wow! Who’s parent will not be proud if their son is an achiever? Photo graduation invitations are not just unique in the sense that they are personalized but because as you see the invitation with the photo of the one who graduated makes it more memorable for you to keep.

Just the other day, we had our family outing, we celebrated the graduation of my cousin, thanks giving too because his brother received an award at the same time the birthday of my niece. It was a great summer outing. We have fun under the sun the whole day. It is seldom that our clan get together because of different schedules at work for the adults while kids are busy with their studies.  Aside from that, our homes are far away from each other, though we are from the same island we live in different cities.

My Aunt posted the photos taken during recognition and graduation day, so as our bonding moments in the social network in the internet where most of our relatives are active too. At least our relatives who are on far away places could browse the photos taken on the said special events.

I hope, someday soon, if I become a mom, my kids are achievers too like my cousins and siblings. To the graduates: Congratulations!

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