
dream
You dream of something, make a plan then work for it. When you achieve it, comes the unexpected emptiness… have you experienced such state? Oh, you are not alone…
There was a time that I was so happy after my dream come true but the feeling fades quickly. I felt sad and purposeless afterward. I feel low and disappointed after getting what I want, was it normal? Therapists say that it is just normal and this is a phenomenon. They admit that this has become more common nowadays.
There is an explanation for this. Eva Kantor, Ph.D., a New York psychotherapist says that “As long as you’ve got a dream, you can shape it in fantasy just as you want it to be. However once something becomes reality, you can see the flaws.”
Carol Saturasky, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, verified: “Many people are looking for an internal change, but that cannot be brought about by an outside experience.”


